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Post by Upset Guy on Jun 12, 2003 13:56:11 GMT -5
 I am so so so upset, my big beefy hunky b/f who has a gorgeous ballbelly is dieting!! On this stupid Atkins thing. Today I saw him and his belly has really gone down, and thats only after 3 days! It's horrid, this is torture! He knows I find his belly a turn on, but he hates having a belly. HELP HELP HELP What would you guys do???
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Post by MarmotWA on Aug 8, 2003 23:27:49 GMT -5
Hey there, I'm going through the same experience. AFter reaching a beautiful 275#, my partner for 11 years went on an Atkins-like diet and has so far lost 35 pounds - almost entirely from his awesome belly.
I find I have to question myself about what I really want from our relationship. When I met my partner, he weighed only 190#. (Hmmmm wonder how he gained all that weight?). So maybe that helps me put things in perspective. But aside from our history, I realize I have to accept what my partner want to do with his body, even though he knows I'd rather have him fat as the Pillsbury doughboy! Additionally, there are health issues (back issues, specifically) involved in this case, so I can't really get upset when that's a factor.
I'm rambling a bit but I just wanted to say I know what it's like!
good luck,
Marmot
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I am so so so upset, my big beefy hunky b/f who has a gorgeous ballbelly is dieting!! On this stupid Atkins thing. Today I saw him and his belly has really gone down, and thats only after 3 days! It's horrid, this is torture!